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Events where your gear takes center stage (and a maximum of 3-4 other gear items). Curated by us for you.

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Alternatively, you can also search by tags. Here you will find all events where the exact tag is included in the event title or description.

Latex, neoprene, PVC, etc.

Leather, Biker, MX etc.

Uniform, workwear, etc.

Sports gear, sneakers, show-off stuff, etc.

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We assign gear types manually to ensure that you (hopefully) find all events here, but only those that focus on your chosen gear – even if certain keywords aren't explicitly mentioned in the event description. This is time-consuming for us, so we limit ourselves to gear types with a relatively large number of events.  

When searching by tag, you'll only get results where your tag is explicitly mentioned in the event title or description. This is simply the same as the search function under "All Events." Generally, several other gear types are also desired here. Nevertheless, the tag search can help you assess whether the event is well-suited for your gear. 
Also, don't forget: there are also many mixed events where you can wear your favorite gear, even if it's not explicitly mentioned!
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Saturday, October 17, 2026

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Sat, 17 October 2026 | 18:00

Fetish Pub Crawl in Frankfurt. Get into your fetish gear and join other fetish enthusiasts for a pub crawl through Frankfurt's vibrant nightlife scene. Please check the Instagram page for starting locations and, most importantly, start times (see event link).

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Sat, 17 October 2026 | 21:00

You can find everything you need to know about the party and the dress code on the info page for the villa party.

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Sat, 17 October 2026 | 21:00

The FFist party.
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Admission from 9:00 PM to 11:00 PM

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Sat, 17 October 2026 | 21:00

The melting pot of the fetish community is back at Eloria Bottrop.

For many years, it has been a regular meeting place for the kinky community from all over Europe to socialize and party exuberantly in a night full of gear. Gear'n'Dance offers the #mykinkyfamily a protected Safespace and the perfect party to experience the Gearlife.

The Gear'n'Dance Party began as an idea to bring together the pup play community and fetishes of all kinds in the Ruhr area. Today, the regular event stands for breaking down barriers and prejudices between different fetishes, as well as for an open and non-sexual approach to fetishism.

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Sat, 17 October 2026 | 20:00

The Long Fetish Night for Guys Zone 283 Tonight it's going to be dark, hot, and limitless. No dress code required—whether leather, rubber, a uniform, or your own unique fetish look: you decide how you present yourself. Whether you just enjoy a cold beer at the bar, make new connections, or live out your hot date, anything is possible tonight. Dress code: Fetish—show what turns you on. Day membership: €10 (non-members) / €0 (members) plus €7 minimum spend.

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Sat, 17 October 2026 | 22:00

BEDROOMS: YOUR KINKY PARTY IN COLOGNE

Urban Vibes: HipHop | RnB | Latin | Afrobeats | Oldschool

Round 3: Cologne, we're going into the next round! After the first fantastic events, we're doing it again, and this time it's going to be even more intense. We've been working hard behind the scenes, optimizing our processes to make the experience at the bedrooms Kinky Party even better. Welcome to a night that Cologne can only experience with us.

We're taking the kinky party experience to a whole new level, both physically and atmospherically. If you're looking for a kinky party in Cologne that breaks new ground musically, you've come to the right place. Forget cold industrial halls and monotonous techno. We're inviting you once again to our exclusive world in Cologne's underground scene. A spacious dance floor, a private play area (you can play anywhere except the restrooms), a photo point, and a comfortable changing area await you. We have plenty of room for your ecstasy, we promise!

In our intimate club, we maintain the feeling of an exuberant yet intimate house party. It's the perfect place for anyone who wants to combine a sex-positive atmosphere with urban vibes. Get ready for the next chapter of Cologne's hottest fetish party!

RHYTHM & INTIMACY: THE MUSICAL REVOLUTION
Musically, we deliberately break with the typical clichés of the scene. At the Bedrooms Kinky Party, the beat dictates the movement. We play the soundtrack for true physicality: deep hip-hop, smooth R&B, driving reggaeton, and Latin vibes. This time, we're bringing exactly the songs you requested. It's going to be intimate, it's going to be hot, and there will be dancing. The music is sexy, and that's precisely why our awareness concept is so important. Anyone looking for a fetish kinky party in Cologne that focuses on smooth beats instead of industrial harshness will love our playlist.

COME AS YOU ARE: RADICAL ACCEPTANCE
For us, exclusivity means choosing character, not body. Our sex-positive party in Cologne is a safe space for hedonists of all kinds. We're creating a place where tolerance is paramount. It makes absolutely no difference what gender you are, who you love, or what size you wear. Whether you're FLINTA, gay, bi, straight, or queer; whether you're petite, curvy, muscular, or plus-size, we celebrate the body in all its facets. Everyone who loves themselves and respects others is welcome. Only one thing matters: Be yourself. Show up in your boldest outfit, feel comfortable in your own skin, and wear your individuality with pride. Arrogance and body shaming are strictly forbidden here.

CONSENT IS EVERYTHING (UNCONSENT)
For us to celebrate so freely and joyfully, clear boundaries are essential. Especially since our urban beats encourage close dancing, one thing must be crystal clear: a "no" must be accepted in every form, whether spoken verbally or signaled through body language. Just because someone is dancing seductively, is naked, or lying in the play area, that's not an invitation to touch or join in.

Ask before every touch.
Ask before joining any game.
Pay attention to signals: Hesitation, silence, evasion, or a "maybe" does not constitute agreement. Only enthusiastic and voluntary consent counts.
Respect the boundary: As soon as you notice that the other person is not fully engaged or no longer fully present, immediately withdraw respectfully.
Respect privacy: What happens at bedrooms stays at the location. Absolute discretion is part of the deal. A strict no-mobile phone policy in relevant areas goes without saying.

ZERO TOLERANCE & AWARENESS RULES
We're serious about creating a safe space. At rnb-kink.de you'll find our detailed Code of Conduct as well as inspiration for our dress code guidelines. By purchasing a ticket, you confirm that you have read, understood, and internalized the guidelines for our Kinky Party Awareness & Rules. We operate a strict zero-tolerance policy: Should you behave inappropriately, ignore a "no," discriminate (racism, sexism, body shaming, homophobia), or disrupt the sex-positive atmosphere, you will be removed from the venue immediately and without warning. We're setting new standards for every Kinky Party in North Rhine-Westphalia, because safety always comes before ecstasy.

TICKETS & APPLICATION: YOUR WAY TO US
To maintain our protected environment, we do not have open ticket sales. Every guest undergoes a brief, one-time check. We have now significantly simplified this application process:

Register on our portal: Go to sexymemberclub.de (= event link below) and fill out the short application form to create your personal profile. You only need to do this once!
Approval: We personally review each registration to guarantee our vibe and safe space. Please register well in advance of the event.
Ticket purchase: Once your account on sexymemberclub.de is activated, you can select the event and book your ticket.
(Note: Simply registering or accepting a ticket on other platforms does not guarantee your spot. Only purchasing a ticket in the members' area of sexymemberclub.de secures your place!)

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Important: Please check our rules and dress code before purchasing a ticket. There is no entitlement to a refund of the ticket price in the event of denied entry or removal during the event. http://www.rnb-kink.de

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Sat, 17 October 2026 | 20:00

Mixed BDSM event.

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Sunday, October 18, 2026

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Sun, 18 October 2026 | 14:00

Bar special at Pullermanns

Regular appointment: the third Sunday of the month

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Sun, 18 October 2026 | 18:00

Underwear & Jock Party.

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Thursday, October 22, 2026 - October 24, 2026

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Thu, October 22, 2026 | All day

A party weekend in full gear.

Info from the organizer: "A place to be in GEAR, Meet people from everywhere, Play in GEAR, Chill in GEAR, Feel and enjoy the GEAR. GearBlast connects gearheads from all over the world! Our message to newcomers: do not be shy. You are not alone. It is GearBlast's mission to provide a safe environment for all people who share an interest in gear to meet, socialize and learn from each other""

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The event is scheduled to take place near Bonn (more precise details were not initially available). We suspect that the date might be changed again, as the organizers initially stated Thursday to Saturday.

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Friday, October 23, 2026

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Fri, 23 October 2026 | 19:00

Open queer kink and fetish community in Mainz.
Regular meeting every fourth Friday of the month.
Come over!

Please check Instagram beforehand to see if the event is taking place.

Regular appointment: the fourth Friday of the month

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Fri, 23 October 2026 | 22:00

Club night.

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Fri, 23 October 2026 | 20:00

With DJ and special floor.

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Saturday, October 24, 2026

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Sat, 24 October 2026 | 20:00

Mixed fetish party.

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Sat, 24 October 2026 | 18:00

Fetish Pub Crawl with Yannick and Stefan, hosted by Franken Fetisch Queers. The starting point of the pub crawl is listed – from there we'll visit various pubs. Full fetish attire is encouraged, but not required. Please check the event page again shortly before the start for the exact time. All genders and all fetishes welcome.

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Sunday, October 25, 2026

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Sun, 25 October 2026 | 14:00

Fist party special at Pullermanns

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Sun, 25 October 2026 | 18:00

Piss Party.

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Friday, October 30, 2026

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Fri, 30 October 2026 | 20:00

On the last Friday of the month, Tom's Saloon opens its basement for Fetish Night. Visit us with your favorite fetish (leather, MX, PVC, sportswear, rubber, etc.) and get a free beer (up to 0.33l).

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Fri, 30 October 2026 | 21:00

Calling all the guys who like it tight, dirty, and uncompromisingly black. The name? It's your dress code!
Come to TOMS on the last Friday of every month.

Calling all gents who like it tight, nasty, and unapologetically black. The name? That's your dress code!
Join us every last Friday a Month at TOMS

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Fri, 30 October 2026 | 21:00

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Admission from 9:00 PM to 11:00 PM

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